My Crush

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I really don’t think I could have said this any better or easier, but I love you! Yea!!! I really do.
Standing far off, I see all that you go through: the pains you feel, though your face do not show it; the fears in your heart; your many anxieties and all of such. . . I see, and how much I wished you had shared all those with me; as you know, a problem shared is half solved. I look and see those smiles on your beautiful face, oh! how I wished I had put them there. Well, often times I also see the tears that mar your face and how I long to wipe them off your face and bring comfort to your soul. I see how you often feel lonely even in the midst of everyone around you and I can’t but wonder if you knew there is a friend that could actually stick closer than a brother. I am aware of how past friends have failed you, your disappointments and heartbreaks, that I know of… if only you could see that I’ve been here all these while, patiently awaiting your attention. Above all, I so much long to share my life with you, with the hope that we could spend our forever together. Strange and scary it sounds, right? But that’s why have been here all along. To share with you my love, joy and peace so incomprehensible. If only you will say YES and give me a place in your heart, at least for a start, but what I really want is the whole of your heart just as I have given you mine.
You know, I have always pictured a day when we will be together, walking down the road side hand-in-hand, doing some really cool stuffs together, and most likely be the talk of the whole town and make the headlines – that day you finally say YES to me! How I long to see that day come to reality. . .
Oh! are you possibly pondering what I’m pondering… ? Or do you wonder who I am or even where I am?… Well, it’s ME your long lost crush!!!

“behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears
My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him,
and he with Me.” {Rev 3: 20}

“. . . today, if you will hear His voice, do not harden your hearts. . .” {Heb 3: 15}

…This is a very old original thought mused over four years ago… And the call still stands… He keeps knocking at the door of your heart… It’s my desire that you yield to his nudge today…

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WHAT WILL BE WILL BE…

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What will be will be…
(Rom 8: 28; Pro 20: 24; Pro 16: 4; Jer 29: 11; Phil 4: 4; II Cor 4: 16-17; Pro 3: 5,6)
At this present moment I find myself in a dilemma trying to comprehend what had happened. Okay! I know what happened, how, when and where but I just can’t understand “WHY?”
It was one of such unusual nights when I decide to take a bath before going to sleep. It was around 11:30pm, less than five hours to when I was supposed to wake up the next morning. I would normally have just gone to bed like that, but on this fateful night I decided to take a bath, and rather unnecessarily, I would like to say. Without further ado, I picked up my lamp and other stuffs and went to the bathroom. Somehow I saw a cockroach and without a second thought I decided to kill it. To cut a rather long story short, in the process of trying to kill the cockroach my hand hit the lamp from where it was placed, and down it went crashing into pieces. A sudden realization dawned on me and I began to wonder: why did I decide to have a bathe tonight? Why did I bring my lamp along? Why on earth did I not just leave the cockroach? Why? Why?? Why???
Ever found yourself in a similar situation where you did something you thought to be so insignificant or even unnecessary but which eventually turned out to be so consequential, either positive or otherwise? Or better still, have you ever woke up on a Sunday morning with such unusual urge to attend a particular church service, for instance, with really no special reason whatsoever; then you get to church and the message literally transformed your life? Then you understand why you had felt you just must be in church. If you’ve ever been in any of such unprecedented happenstances, then you just might appreciate why I was in such dilemma this fateful night.
As I sat down to muse over my predicament that night, something sounded in the inside of me: “boy! What will be will be”. Oh! How I hate that nursery school rhyme “Que sera sera, what will be will be, sera… blah! blah! blah!” You don’t blame me, would you? The fact is, just like you, I like to feel I’m in charge. That I run things around me or at least think I do. However, also like you I often happen to be victim of many a circumstances. Equally though, I won’t deny that I have had a fair share of the brighter side as well without my slightest contribution or even premonition. So even as much as I want to hate that nursery rhyme, its lyrics seem to pervade my everyday life – what will be will be!
As I sat there trying to understanding why I keep being haunted, so to say, by my much hated rhyme, there came a consolation in my mind: the thought that “all things work together for good to them that love God…” Oh! What glimmer of hope! However, I was yet to be satisfied. Still, a few more questions demand answers. Even the consoling thought made me wonder; do unpleasant and painful situations work for good? Confused. I don’t think I’m going nowhere until I get all these sorted out. There should be an explanation somehow and somewhere to these.
It’s two days later and I am yet to get my answer. In fact, I must admit I am beginning to forget about it and simply succumb to my much dreaded phrase – what will be will be. Somehow, I happen to be reading in class before this unusual lethargy came upon me. I had intended to read for at least four hours, but it’s just two hours since I arrived class and here I am thinking of leaving already. All the same, I packed my books and headed for hostel. On arriving, I jammed a senior friend who I had not seen for some months, right on the staircase, on his way out of school. Déjà vu! I thought; here we go again! How I would have missed out on his visit had I not obeyed my ‘lazy’ instinct to stop reading. Well, as I approached him, he exclaimed “how the steps of the righteous are ordered by God”, in expressing his pleasure to see me. Alas! That was the answer I had awaited for two days, coming right in the middle of another so called coincidence. Right there and then I clearly understood that indeed all things happen under God’s watch and that they ultimately work together for good.

Fate, you may say, or even nature or coincidence, but the truth is “The Lord works out everything for His own ends…”. And they all work together for good to us simply because we love Him and have put our trust in Him. Whether they be good or otherwise, we know He orders our steps towards the ultimate good that we might as yet not be aware of. Did the Bible not say that His thoughts towards us are thoughts of peace and to bring us to an expected end? So you wonder what to do at those times when things seem so bad to have any good in it? When there seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel, so to say? Simply rejoice! Again I say rejoice. For our present troubles can in no means compare with the glory that is reserved for us.

As I conclude, remember that what will be will indeed be, but that is because God wants it to be. So in all your ways acknowledge Him and do not lean on your own understanding.

Chicken Republic

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Hey take it easy! Salivating already? I understand all the delicacies that might have crossed your mind at the sight of my topic of discourse… In fact, I guess you must have taken a mind trip back to the last time you were in chicken republic, or any eatery of that class in particular… Well, just calm down…. There are more pressing issues to discuss and I crave your indulgence to hang with me just a while longer.

So let’s get down to business…

It is no longer news that our dear nation is bereft of leadership. Leaders at every level, have by and large let us down as a people. Everyone everywhere clamours for change. Everyone craves for a better living for self and the populace… In fact, everyone seems to have the perfect solutions to Nigeria’s multifarious problems… Yeah, I mean everyone except those that have been given the political responsibility to cause that change that we all desire… How sad, we must say!
Ours is a case of 150million coaches that seem to always know how best to run our football teams, for instance… With however no consequent improvement in our football. The one person charged with the job of the coach just always turn out to be the worst of the 150million… Or how else do you expect me to explain this…?

Well having said this, it’s important to note that the problem with us as a nation is not one that is farfetched. It’s one of a theoretic approach to every single thing… One of apt policy making but astute-less in implementation… From the top to the bottom, we all are theorists… action now seems a foreign word to our national vocabulary… Words like service and sacrifice are indeed strange tongues that Nigeria may not relate with. Everyone enjoys the comfort zone… Everyone is okay with whatever role they think they play at the present moment, even in the face of this marmount corporate inefficiency and inadequacy… Truth be told, we have not done enough! There is much room for each and everyone of us to take a stand and make a move for the betterness of our dearly beloved nation.
Like Keneth Kaunda similarly asked, I aso ask today: when shall Nigeria be free? When shall we be free from this Chicken Republic?!?! A federal republic of talkers and theorists…
The onus is on us all. Take a stand. Make a move.
Meanwhile, charity begins at home; so I call on every student and youth. Get engaged even at your level now, for posterity would ask you: were you a chicken? Or what did you stand for in your own time? Now don’t even give me that ‘I am apolitical!’ line… You don’t want me to go there now, I’m sure…
Anyways, I sign out with a last sip of my drink here at chicken republic.. Haha, feel free to resume your fantasizing back…

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KNOWLEDGE IS EVERYTHING

What you don’t know won’t kill you – what a lie! At this age and time, you will agree with me that we die daily more from things we are totally unaware of than from the many vices so to say that we can easily identify…. Talk of little foxes that spoil the vine eh?
The truth is each and every day, something we do not know ‘kills’ us in so many ways we do not know. The mistake often times is that we concentrate on and are more bothered by the losses we can perceive while we forget to pay attention to those ‘insensible’ losses… the potential gains we could have accrued if and only if we had known a little bit more, better. The price we pay to our ignorance every single day is practically inestimable, and like the age-long maxim, ‘if education is expensive, they say try ignorance’… good enough, or unfortunately so, you may say, a majority of us on a daily basis patronize ignorance on a large scale. Ask yourself a simple question; how much do I really know? Do I have an adequate and appropriate understanding of whatever it is I am engaged in? More often than not, the answer would be a NO! Except of course you are that recalcitrant, egotistic, ignorant peacock that would never agree he knows but nothing… Oops! Hope that doesn’t describe you tho!
There is this popular story of a guy that was contracted to help fix a faulty machine, so he billed his contractors $100 and they were very willing to pay. However, to their utmost surprise, all he did was hit the faulty machine with a swing of a hammer, and bingo, machine started working perfectly fine. As such, they had to ask him why he would bill such a ridiculous amount for a job as menial as the swing of a hammer. Good question you would say, and it got an interesting and quite inspiring response: ‘$99 for knowing what to do, and $1 for doing it’ he said. That is to say, $99 for knowing that all he had to do to get the machine working was to hit it with a hammer in the appropriate place, and $1 for swinging the hammer. I would say that was fair enough… talk about KNOWLEDGE! Of course, the owners of the faulty machine do know how to swing a hammer, but what they did not know is that all they had to do was to swing the hammer… and save a hundred dollars!!! So you see, what you don’t know is killing you day after day, whether you know it or not!
Reminds me of one of the many times I have had to pay my fair share for being so ignorant. So it happened that on this fateful day, or perhaps sometime during the week, my printer started acting up – as usual. Being very familiar with this particular brand and model of printer, I safely assumed I got it covered and know exactly what was wrong. Of course, the printer has three indicator lights and I perfectly understand the significance of each one when it blinks… or so I thought. So it happened that the middle indicator light came on, and that should suggest a problem with the ink… therefore, I refilled the black ink – since it appeared emptier and older than the colored ink cartridge. As this did not solve my problem, I decided to buy a new black cartridge altogether… But alas, the indictor wouldn’t stop blinking so I had to take it to a repairer who complicated everything by toiling something else inside the printer… I eventually had to travel across town to a more trusted repairer. At the end of the day, the problem with my printer was not a shortage of ink in my black cartridge as supposed, but rather a bad, though new and filled color cartridge… if only I had known! All I needed was another color cartridge that was sensitive – howbeit new or old, filled or empty. I need not remind you that all these came at its own cost – in cash! All I thought I knew about the printer was questioned and changed in all but one week. Little did I know that the only indication of an empty cartridge is a fading print, and not the indicator light as I supposed… well, that’s all history now as it’s been bliss working with the printer from that time onward…
Knowledge is power… right, but much more, knowledge brings bliss. In fact, knowledge is everything.
Consider the stock market for example, the credit crunch, bull market, bear market, et cetera… if only investors had known better…
In health care for instance it is common place to hear the popular mantra “prevention is better than cure”. However, it will shock you to discover how much is spent on curative and rehabilitative medicine every year, treating and managing diseases and conditions that could ordinarily be prevented by such simple measures as change of lifestyle, diet modifications, exercise and the likes… Oh! How much we pay for our ignorance!
As I draw the curtains, I charge you in the words of Steve Jobs, stay foolish and stay hungry for knowledge – make yourself a better person. What you do not know is actually killing you each and every day; your ignorance is costing you some dollars, take it or leave it. Be it in how to manage finances, personal hygiene, health, anything at all, never hesitate to ask if and when you need to. Never be too proud to ask; ask the necessary questions and get optimal results out of life.
Remember, wisdom is the principal thing… and in all thy gettings, get understanding. Go for knowledge today, for knowledge is indeed everything…